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I have been on several forums for 7 or so years now, so I know how they work. I was giving my opinion on my experience on this forum at the time of writing it.
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exactly and other people joining at the same time (or later) as you have a different one so there must be a difference between us - the obvious one is the difference in the amount of time spent joining in and posting etc. You should know from your own time on forums (and in real life) that it takes more than a comment here and there to get to know another person.
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The best way to see it is feedback from a peripheral member rather than an attack on DF or it's members. I would dare to bet that not many other people who feel the same would admit it. I don't think I have been nasty or offensive in what I have posted.
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never said it was
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With regards to the time in which we both joined, what is your point? You spammed your way in to acceptance and that is what I should have done?
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I joined in on conversations and helped where I can, it can make a huge difference to getting the feel of the place.
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I don't think I have ever done 1700 posts in one year on all the forums I have been on combined. It is not my style. But I think this has always been a relatively quiet forum tbh and would've found it to get to 1700 posts since I joined.
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I managed easy enough, 5-6 posts a day isn't that many and on average there's at least 5 new threads a day so that's like 1 post in each. Not hard, it takes roughly half an hour to do although I'll admit I do come on more often than that through choice.
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After that I don't see how your last 3 paragraphs relate to me or my post? Unless you're indirectly justifying posts being ignored or implying that I am in the categories of users that you mentioned.
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I think you may want to read my post again, especially the last 3 paragraphs, as you seem to have taken a very hostile attitude to my response. I'd also say that it's quite clear that those 3 paragraphs are not directed at you personally as they're generalisations as to why no reply is given to a post (ie your first post in the thread)
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Originally Posted by Tony
I found/find it hard to get involved on here tbh. It felt like so many of my posts were ignored (unless it was to flame me) and that I'd joined an MSN conversation between a few mates at times.
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The simple fact of the matter is that by joining in, irrelevant of post count,
I have over time gotten to know the characters of the 'regulars' on this forum and as such have become known to them as well.
We've had new people come in after me and they've been welcomed and as they've joined in more they start playing around with the random banter, look at xxmissbirdyxx and rennicks posts - neither are taking the others post seriously.
EDIT: due to the newer post
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I don't think bringing up and linking that thread is particularly cool. Not exactly a happy time in my life.
I wish I'd never bothered replying to this thread.
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If you joined the forum when you were in a darker place then you will have taken a different interpretation to everything around you. I am and have been relatively happy the entire time I've been on this forum so it will make a difference.
Best thing for you to do is totally ignore what's happened in the past as it clearly wasn't a good time for you and join in from now and see how you feel in a while.